Tamara S. Hatheway

I have spent my entire legal career with this firm, as a law clerk, then an associate and now a shareholder. Prior to going to law school, I practiced social work with the State of Arizona and the Platte County Missouri Juvenile Office. I specialized in child abuse and neglect.

I believe my social work background has given me the ability to empathize with my clients and a unique experience beneficial in child custody matters. Although, I believe I assertively represent my client’s interest, I am very concerned with the welfare and best interests of children. I think opposing counsel and parties should be dealt with honestly and with respect. As I often tell my clients, I do not believe lawyers “fueling the fire”, with unrealistic demands and accusatory rhetoric serves parties already involved in an emotional process.

Throughout the years I have served on the board of directors and committees of many not for profit organizations that benefit children. As an avid, but high handicap golfer, I have helped organize tournaments for bar organizations. I like sports in general, especially football, since I grew up in Lincoln, Nebraska.


B.A., University of Nebraska 1975,
Master of Social Work, University of Nebraska 1976,
J.D., University of Missouri at Kansas City 1987.



Missouri 1987 and Kansas 1988



Missouri Bar Association, Kansas Bar Association, Kansas City Metropolitan Bar Association, Association of Women Lawyers of Greater Kansas City, Johnson County Kansas Bar Association, The Collaborative Divorce Professionals of Greater Kansas City, and International Academy of Collaborative Professionals

I authored the chapter on Collaborative Law for the Family Law, Missouri Practice Series 2007 and listed in the current editions of Best Lawyers in America and Super Lawyers. I am also AV rated preeminent by Martindale Hubbell.*

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